recurrence in life

everything that happens before would happen again.

the best way to improve how u are going to deal with it, is to look back to your mistakes and never repeat them again. the apparent problem would then gradually become nothing, not a problem anymore.

its hard to change to what you normally do, it just becomes natural when you come into that situation. the feeling of helplessness would arise and that is the point where you got to change in the way you react.

well, life is about self improvement via the experience you have been through. i am pretty sure if you got enough 'practice' and 'stints', it is not going to be a matter of concern anymore.